I recently saw a
sign in a co-worker’s office that said,
“Pick a job you love and you will never
work a day in your life.”
Wow! Just the
thought of having a job that you love to go to every morning seems like a
fantasy to many. This was not the first time I had heard this saying and I must
say I have to believe that it is not true. While the thought of doing something
you love every day may seem like heaven on earth, no job is without challenges.
For years I
thought I wanted to be a Spanish teacher or interpreter. I dreamed of the day I
could get up every morning and go to a classroom and teach. I felt like all
would be well in my world if I could just do what I wanted to do every day.
Naturally, this was an unrealistic thought process. Once I finally landed a job
using my Spanish skills I realized that many days were less than perfect.
The biggest
challenge of any job is the fact that we have to work with other people who are
as imperfect as we are. There are people to deal with on any job. No matter
what I do, I will have a supervisor to answer to and co-workers to get along
with. Often my co-workers ideas will conflict with my own. If I am not willing
to compromise and work at reaching an agreement that everyone can live with I
will always be frustrated.
I remember when
I used to think that I would be happy if I could just be in charge. I laugh at
such thoughts now that I am in management. When one is in an entry-level
position, he has to concern himself with what his superiors think. When one is
in management, he has to balance what his superiors think with what his
subordinates think. Often those at lower positions in a company feel that
management could change things if they would. What they fail to understand is
that everyone answers to someone and their immediate supervisor is probably
following orders in the decisions she makes. It is easy to say what needs to be
done until one is responsible for getting it done.
For years I worked
in lower skilled, low paying jobs, not feeling like I could do anymore. I had
skills but did not have confidence in myself (or in God) to believe that I
could do more. I often knew that I was not happy with my current position but I
did not know what to do about it. I had an ideal job in mind and thought that
all would be well if I could obtain that job.
In time and
through God’s blessing I obtained a better paying position. I had a job that
matched my skill level and I should have been content. But I was not content; I
lacked the confidence that I needed to do my job and felt that my opinion was
not valued. I will never forget the moment during a church service when the
Spirit of God spoke these words to my heart: “I have promoted you but you are
still thinking like a janitor.”
I was stunned
because I realized in that moment how true these words were. I was still
walking around like someone that had a minimum wage job. I had to stop thinking
like someone with a low paying job and no skill set. I had to behave myself like
a professional and understand that my opinion mattered. I hesitated in using
this example because there is nothing wrong with being a janitor. However,
there is something wrong with believing that one’s work is meaningless. (We all
know that the custodial staff is one of the most important positions in any
place of business.)
With time I have
come to believe that the most important thing in any job is one’s attitude about
that job. One can have the best job in the world and still not want to be
there. It is easy to fall into the trap of thinking that the grass is always greener
on the other side. No job is without its challenges and one must face those
challenges each day with the mindset that he will do his best.
I do believe it
is important to pick a job that one will enjoy when possible. I am a people
person and I love languages. I enjoy talking to people and learning about their
cultures and lifestyles. I consider myself a fairly intelligent person but I do
recognize one thing about myself; I do not enjoy math. I would not be good at
crunching numbers all day and could not imagine being a bookkeeper or
accountant. My own aversion to numbers let me know not to study accounting or anything
remotely related to it while in college.
If one has the
ability to study and pick a job s/he will like, by all means do it. Just
remember that the best job in the world will still have its challenges because
nothing in this world is perfect. The sooner one learns that lesson in life,
the more content s/he will be. If one finds one’s self in the place where he
has to take whatever job he can get at the moment, he should do that job to the
best of his ability. Nothing stays the same and chances are that a better job
will come along eventually. In the mean time, he should see the job as an
opportunity to better himself. There is always something that can be learned
from any job, even if the lesson is more about human nature than skill set.
While it may
sound good to say that a job you love will turn everyday into play, this is
simply not reality. While I am not saying that one should not try to find a job
he will enjoy, I am saying that even the best job will have things about it that
one does not enjoy. One has to make the most of those things and give every day
to the Lord. Remember, we should be doing everything as unto the Lord; He gets
no glory out of a job half done. Give your best to every situation and you may
be surprised to find out that you do love your job after all.
Blessings,
Pastor Sullivan
Jones